Jennifer + Jorge | Milk, Cookies, and Simplicity
/A bilingual micro-wedding rooted in the love and closeness of family.
Jorge and I had a smaller, but oh so beautiful, wedding. We didn’t want to put on a show or try to outdo other weddings we had been to. The Holy Family Chapel at St. Peter, Prince of Apostles in Lemoore, was perfect for us. Amid the uncertainty of Covid, we chose to invite only immediate family and grandparents, yet it was such special time for us, focused on the meaning of holy matrimony.
A friend from church willingly offered her services to photograph different points of our wedding. We are grateful for all the beautiful photos she took for us.
As simple as the wedding was, I still felt beautiful: my white dress, my mother’s veil, my curls, and the cascading bouquet of white roses. I wore the same wreath in my hair that I’d worn for my First Holy Communion!
For our processional, Jorge suggested the idea of him and me meeting at the back of the chapel with our parents, and having the sendoff there. After that First Look, we could walk down the aisle together--that is exactly what we did.
Jorge chose his grandfather’s wedding ring for himself, which he had inherited a few years prior.
The two of us had both learned of the old European custom of saying our vows over a crucifix. I had received one from a dear friend, and it seemed like the perfect size to use during our vows; it now hangs in our bedroom.
Because there was no wedding party to lead our entrance down the aisle, different family members were given assignments, from bringing forth the rings, carrying the crucifix, or assembling the flowers to Our Lady. For our Marian dedication during the Mass, we sung the Salve Regina--as Jorge and I had done together daily, for the past year.
Our reception consisted of a light luncheon. Some other good friends from church catered and decorated the back patio of my parents’ house, which is out in the country. It was the perfect spot for us to cherish the meaning of family.
Jorge comes from a Mexican background, though my family knows little Spanish. So, before we all went through the buffet line, Jorge led us in prayer in English, Spanish, and then the two of us also chanted in Latin, as we typically do before meals.
Our theme for the reception was Milk and Cookies. With a little backstory, we included mugs I had given Jorge for his birthday earlier on in our relationship. With a comical illustration, they read, We go together like milk and cookies! They always brought a smile to our faces, and it really does feel so true! So, in place of a wedding cake, we fed each other large chocolate chip cookies that Jorge’s sister had made for us!
With these simple but meaningful arrangements, it made our preparations so free from stress. I am grateful to God that it came out so wonderfully, with a day focused on the sacred.
Nuptial Mass Location: Holy Family Chapel at St. Peter, Prince of Apostles, Lemoore, California | Photography: Nancy Silva, friend of the couple